Most humans would love to have a simple, step by step solution to pretty much anything.
Like “what do I say to her to make her like me?”
Just imagine if there really WAS a “magic sentence” you could say to a girl (any girl) that would make her “like you.”
You’d say it, and she’d like you. But then somebody else would say it to her, and she’d like him.
In reality, there IS a simple way to make a LOT of girls like you.
And that is to differentiate yourself from every other lazy guy out there looking for magic tricks.
How do you do that?
Express your interest in her, but not in a needy way.
Always have something cooking that is MORE IMPORTANT than her.
Give her the pleasure of missing you, so she can use her imagination to conjure up romantic images of you.
This, however, is VERY HARD to fake.
If you’ve ever liked a girl more than she likes you, you know what I mean.
Every time she texts you, you go crazy trying to think of the right thing and the right time and the right frequency.
Luckily, if you take the time to CREATE SOMETHING that really WILL be more important than her, this will happen naturally.
Think of it this way, if you CHASE her, she’ll run away.
This will only work for a little bit, until it loses its charm. Women have been more or less following men for most of human history.
On the other hand if you CHASE your life, she’ll CHASE you.
Which means you need to figure out WHAT you will chase for your life.
And think of the girls as the added benefit.