Women are much better than guys at reading body language.
They step into a party and know right away who’s into whom, and who’s not.
Which means if you are radiating the wrong “energy,” there’s not much you can do to build attraction.
When I say “energy” I mean the sum total of all your gestures, movements, voice tone, etc.
All of your non-verbal communication and behavior.
Men get attracted by how she looks.
Women get attracted by how men behave.
What behavior does she like?
Or more importantly, what behavior makes her attracted, whether she likes it or not?
Somebody who is not needy. Somebody that thinks she’s cute, but isn’t desperate for her company.
Somebody that looks at women and thinks, “Hmm, she’s cute, but cute girls are a dime a dozen. I wonder what her personality is like?”
Somebody that is confident in their own skin.
Now, she doesn’t think all of this consciously. She just FEELS IT. And usually within a few seconds.
Unfortunately, if she’s NOT feeling it, there’s not much you can do.
On the other hand, if she IS feeling it, there’s not much you NEED to do.
Just smile and say, “Hi,” and wait to see what she ways.
How do you build this behavior?
More importantly, how do you build this behavior so you radiate it naturally, wherever you go, without needing to think?
It’s pretty easy.
It’s just a matter of your frame of mind that you train in.
Most guys rely on their “factory settings” in their brain.
But your mindset, how you see the world, how you see girls, is pretty easy to shift.
And once you do, you’ll be amazed how much better everything looks.