Most guys would do anything to get “a girl” to like them.
Unfortunately, when it’s gotten to that point, where you like her and she’s already decided she doesn’t like you, it’s too late.
The thing about us people is our brains are really pretty simple.
And by understanding how our brains operate, it’s pretty easy to get us to do stuff, (or get others to do stuff) if you know what you’re doing.
EXCEPT if they’ve made a clear decision BEFORE they interact with you that they DON’T want to do what you’re going to try and persuade them to do.
For example, if you walk onto a car lot and your main goal is to NOT buy a car, it’s going to be VERY HARD to sell you a car.
On the other hand, if you kind of, sort of want a new car, you’ll be a lot easier to persuade.
Which means, if that girl you like has ALREADY DECIDED she’s not interested in dating you, there’s not much you can do.
So it’s much better to focus on other girls.
But when you do that, it’s really pretty simple.
The easiest way to become VERY attractive to many girls is to have a huge plan for your life that will ALWAYS be MORE IMPORTANT than any girl.
This has to be real, it can’t be faked.
Women are hard wired to FOLLOW MEN. Many women are angry today because most men have NOTHING they are going after, which makes it VERY HARD to follow them.
Which means a lot of women are stuck doing the leading, which they HATE.
At least from a sexual-attraction standpoint.
All you need to do is take some time, figure out what you are going to chase (dreams, goals, visions) for your life.
And then start chasing it.
The effect on the women in your life will be profound.
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