If you’ve ever started an exercise program after a long period of inactivity, you’ve probably experienced the common phases.
The first phase is when you still have the motivation (usually from looking at yourself naked in the mirror) and can PUSH yourself through your internal resistance.
After a while of this, the next phase is when it’s habit. Your motivation has likely waned a bit, but if you’ve been doing it every day, you feel kind of guilty for NOT doing it.
The next phase is when it gets good. It’s when you enjoy doing it. Maybe not getting out of bed early, but once you get going, (whatever is you’re doing, jogging outside or riding an exercise bike in the garage), it’s a reward in and of itself.
Those who are lifelong runners wouldn’t DREAM of not going for their daily job.
Same for those who meditate on a daily basis. It might be boring and cumbersome to get started, but pretty soon it’s something you’d NEVER want to stop doing.
This is when any kind of “practice” becomes an end in itself.
Practicing social skills also follows this same pattern. Unfortunately, most people don’t see social skills as something to “practice.”
We tend to see it as something we’re either good at, or something we just suck at.
But if you look at it as a practice, and TREAT it like a practice, it will BECOME a practice.
And if you put in the effort, you’ll get to the point where you LOOK FORWARD to practicing your social skills.
Luckily, there’s a lot of ways to “cheat” your way to the level of “enjoying the practice.”
Because of most of the works is operating on those old beliefs that have been holding you back.
There are plenty of ways to go out in public, NOT talk to a single soul, but FEEL like you’ve created tons of conversations.
This will give you ALL of the benefits, without any of the risk.
And as I’m sure you know, no matter WHAT your “purpose” is in life, it will be much EASIER, and much more REWARDING, if you jack up your social skills as high as you possible can.
Which you’ll soon discover has no upper limit.
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