Most guys act like little kids around girl’s they’re attracted to.
Which is kind of gross, in a Freudian sense.
What do little kids do around their moms?
They do something “good” and mom gives them a “reward.”
In fact, most PEOPLE live their lives like that.
They believe that the world is based on some magical “reward system.”
Like if you work “hard” you SHOULD get paid.
Unfortunately, the basic laws of economics say you’ll only get paid if your work is VALUABLE according to somebody else.
Namely, the guy who’s paying you.
You can fill your backpack with rocks, go outside and jump up and down all day trying to fly.
It sure is hard, but NOBODY is going to pay you for that.
(Unless you’re looking goofy on purpose in hopes of getting viral YouTube fame).
Girls are the same way.
They don’t “reward” guys for saying the “right thing.”
They ACT a certain way if they FEEL the right emotions.
So your job, as a man, is to get her FEELING those emotions.
You can’t ASK SOMEBODY to feel those emotions any more than you can ASK SOMEBODY to get hungry for a certain type of food.
However, you CAN make the right kind of food, at the right time, so they will GET HUNGRY as a natural response.
Similarly, you can behave and communicate around a girl in the right way, that will SUBCONSCIOUSLY entice her to FEEL those feelings.
The feelings that will make her WANT to be with you for HER reasons.
The paradox is the MORE she suspects you are trying to make her feel those feelings, the LESS LIKELY she’ll feel them.
So you have to VERY SUBTLE.
What do most guys do?
They spit out a couple of lines, waiting for a “reward” just like when mommy gave them a cookie.
Don’t do that!
What should you do instead?
Speak to her in a very specific way that will get her feeling those wonderful emotions that will make her WANT to do those wonderful things WITH YOU.
For HER reasons, not yours.
They can NEVER be yours.
Luckily, if you obey the first rule of “Fight Club” (NEVER talk about Fight Club) that will be easy.