If you put together the correct ingredients for a cake, and put it in the right pan in the right oven at the right temperature for the right amount of time, you’ll get a cake.
Every single time.
You won’t sometimes get a cake, or only get a cake if you are lucky. But if you do the same things on the front end, you’ll get the same things on the back end.
Einstein’s way of describing this curious facet about reality is that “God doesn’t play dice with the universe.”
Meaning the laws of nature are NOT based on randomness.
Sure, they can SEEM random if we don’t understand the underlying rules, and how the rules might interact with each other.
For example, if you tried to bake a cake a the bottom of the ocean, you probably wouldn’t get a cake. You’d get a soggy salty mess.
People are the same way.
It can sure seem that we’ve all got these “random behavior generators” in our brains, but we really don’t.
All of us look out into the world with an idea of what we want.
And based on our understandings of our skills, and the world, we’ll take certain actions to get what we want.
This same process happens whether or not we’re taking a leak in the middle of the night or building a boat in our backyard.
We are also subject to stimuli.
If you feel a rat crawl across your foot as you’re eating dinner, you’ll recoil in horror.
If you see a little kid running across a room with a happy expression on his face, you’ll probably smile.
And if you exhibit the right behavioral patterns and communication strategies, you’ll create attraction in women.
Every single time.
Whether or not you or they act on it is a different story.
But creating attraction and desire is pretty simple once you get your mind around it.
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